The game that gets families talking about the hard stuff.
82 Questions That Matter. 200 answers that are funny because they're true. One card game that turns the conversations your family has been avoiding into the ones nobody can stop having.
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Cards Against Humanity meets caregiving reality.
One player draws a Question That Matters card and reads the question outloud. Everyone plays the answer from their hand that's funniest, most relatable, or most painfully accurate.
Draw a Question That Matters card
82 real caregiving questions your family has been avoiding. Read it aloud. Watch the table react.
Everyone plays an answer card
Funny, dark, painfully specific. The Card Czar picks the winner. The room either laughs or goes very quiet.
Scan for the real answer
The back of every Question that Matters card has a QR code linking to LTCareNav's expert answer.
You promised you would never put your parent in a facility. The thing that made you reconsider was ___.
A promise made before anyone understood what the promise meant.
The thought you had about the pillow that you will take to your grave.
Real cards · Real talk · Real answers
Three decks. Two complete games.
The Questions That Matter Cards
All 82 questions from Lindsay Friedman's book The Questions That Matter — every hard caregiving conversation your family has been putting off, as fill-in-the-blank prompts. QR codes link to the real expert answers.
The Day Shift
Edgy, funny, and family-dinner appropriate. PG-13 answers that are relatable without needing to explain yourself to your mother-in-law. For caregivers who still have some filters left.
After the Kids Go to Bed
The version for caregivers who need to laugh at 11pm with zero filter. Dark, specific, and only funny if you've been there. Which you have. Same questions. Much darker, more "you had to be there" answers.
Questions your family actually needs to answer.
Dad insists he doesn't need a cane but grips every piece of furniture. The phrase for this is ___.
The sibling who lives 10 minutes away has visited twice this year. Their excuse is ___.
Mom thinks Medicare covers everything. When you explain it doesn't, her face does ___.
You promised you'd never put your parent in a facility. The thing that made you reconsider was ___.
The moment you realized you were burning out was when you ___.
Nobody has talked about who helps with bathing or dressing. The reason for that silence is ___.
6 of 82 questions shown. The other 76 are waiting in the box.
Every card has a real answer.
Every Question That Matters card has a QR code on the back. Scan it mid-game and land on a page with Lindsay's real expert answer — drawn directly from the book.
Every answer page is available.
Browse All 82 Answers →You notice Dad has dents on all four corners of his car. When you bring it up, he says ___.
Request a formal driving evaluation through an occupational therapist who specializes in driver rehabilitation. This removes the decision from the family dynamic entirely — it's not you taking the keys, it's a professional assessment.
The game is the book — gamified.
Every Question That Matters card comes directly from Lindsay Preston Friedman's book — 82 essential questions every caregiving family needs to answer before crisis hits. The game gets the conversation started. The QR codes take you to the answers.
Lindsay is a long-term care navigator who has helped hundreds of families through the conversations nobody teaches you to have. The book is the guide. The cards are how families actually use it.
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Cards FOR Caregiving
- ✓82 teal question cards
- ✓200 The Day Shift answer cards
- ✓QR code to all 82 real answers
- ✓Rules card included
Cards FOR Caregiving
- ✓82 teal question cards
- ✓200 Sundowning answer cards
- ✓QR code to all 82 real answers
- ✓Rules card included
Both Editions
- ✓82 teal question cards
- ✓200 The Day Shift answer cards
- ✓200 Sundowning answer cards
- ✓QR code to all 82 real answers
- ✓Rules card included
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